The Secret To Change A Relationship - the easy way!

relationships Dec 19, 2022

You know that feeling when no matter how much you do it feels like if your partner doesn't change, your relationship won't make it...

You've been putting in the reps, tending to your self-love, your alignment and really doing the work. Despite what feels like an enormous amount of effort on your part, it doesn't seem like your partner wants to show up for their own healing journey, let alone some couples therapy or a good relationship book... and every time you bring it up they look at you like...

Not to worry!!! Today's episode of Life Camp TV is an excerpt from a recent coaching session in Life Camp, ((( for those new here, this is our 9 month hybrid course and group coaching program where you learn radical self love, unshakeable confidence, mastering relationships and how to heal, integrate and thrive after anxiety, trauma and chronic stress!))) where we coach one of our clients who came to us with this question:

"How important is it for the other person in the relationship to have insight in order for things to heal? (Insight into their core wounds and their suffering). Is it more that in the relationships shifting because of my shifts that they can heal through that even without the insight? Or is it more they change their responses vs heal? ...Do they have to do the work that I'm doing for our relationship to THRIVE?!"
 
Have you ever wondered how to get your partner, lover or spouse to change?


Here's the deal... if you've ever desired (asked, demanded, nagged or begged) your significant other to change, show up different or do more of their own healing...

  1. You are not alone! It's normal to want the other person to show TF up! And Star and I have both done #AllOfTheAbove, so no shame!
  2. You're going to want to listen in on this session and put yourself in the position to be coached!

So when you hear us coaching our client, if will be like we are coaching YOU... and the breakthroughs, aha's and new understanding will be yours. As we unveil the keys to change any relationship you will be ready to receive it, because we are coaching you the minute you agree to show up and be receptive.

If you want to take your insight further put it into action by sharing a comment below the video! Not only does this help solidify the knowledge in your brain and neural pathways for change, it also supports our small business and we LOVE reading what moves you!

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Cheers to YOU and a fabulous weekend ahead.


Big hugs,

❤️ Ruby & Star

PS: When you're ready, here are a few ways we can support you closing the gap on who you are and who you want to be...

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Ruby & Star| LIFE CAMP

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